No Judgement
Even though they adhere to a very strict code of conduct, they don’t expect others outside of their circles to live the same way. In fact, judging others outside of the Amish circle for their lifestyle choices is considered a sin and therefore they don’t do it.
Quick Dating
Young couples don’t usually date for a long period of time. Rather they date for a short period and then when they decide to get engaged, they inform their church leaders and parents. Only once the news comes out in the town’s newspaper, is their engagement official.